*will she say i do*
*will da smiles last long*
Hmm…Societyz Loneranger is back for some action…well..today shall talk abt marriage..let me see..wad do I abt marriage..to me..marriage is a life long journey which a man and women take together till dey grow old..before u even think of getting married to da paricular person..think carefully..coz some decisions are not always right..There are people who are love marriage and some arrange marriage, some due to circumstances, and some I really wonder why dey got married..its not necessary dat juz becoz a gal and guy like each other it shld and wld end up in marriage..sometimes its juz different..its totally a different world from those courting days, those days you went dating and stuff…but marriage..u gotta look at the person’s face everyday, have conversation, be happy, live wif dem, sleep wif dem..my my…soo many things..
Not all weddings which took place is 100% perfect…but u gotta see da imperfections perfectly…but not many does dat…okies..let me tell this..recently I heard from my fren dat dis gal is divorcing her husband..due to…??? Becoz dey have been married and dey dun have kids…and da husband is blaming her fully..yesh she went for so many check up..but den later she realise after dis check up dat her womb is upside down..so dats da reason why she can’t get pregz…and now da couple is divorcing..let me ask this question is Marriage all about spending the whole life wif that special someone or abt getting a heir for dem…do u ppl think women are baby machine or something…let me tell women sacrifices da world for da man whom she loves..but man..sacrifices everything for da world even da women whom he loves…well I am not trying to point fingers at all men…so dun get tense…
I mean its like u got married to dat special gal coz u love her soo much and more den anything else..and not becoz she can give birth to your kid…what if u realise dat she can’t give birth even before she gets married to you…does it mean u guys will leave that gal…oh my….u noe a women dun even mind giving her life to the child she gives birth coz she noes dat her husband loves da kid soo much dat she dun mind sacrificing her life…hmm…I dun noe wad are people up to nowadays…and I seriously think dat a man who loves his wife more even knowing she can’t give him a heir is da best man..and I am very sure he wld love his wife like his own child…its more painful to a women knowing she can’t give birth compared to a man who will be upset dat he can’t have a heir for himself…
She will always cry in her sleep dat she is not able to become a mother, she can’t breastfeed, she can’t feel a lil fingers of her junior..she can’t feel da kicks..do u noe how much pain and hurt and emotionally down she will be going through..NO!!! not many care abt it..well even if da husbands keep quiet abt da matter..oh my dats when da In-Laws entry is….dey will put da whole lot blame on da daughter-in-law saying she can’t give birth..blah and blah..hmm..come on people try to put urself in da women shoes who are going through this kinda mess in deir life…I wld wan a husband who loves me..and not becoz I can give him a child…do u think dat da women dun wan a child for herself..of coz she loves to have a own kid, a happy family and stuff…but she neva shows neither tells what she is exactly feeling..
In da other end..da are people who give birth for da fun of it…I seriously dun understand why…dey give birth juz becoz dey dun wanna abort but later dey dump da poor lil infant at da void deck, dustbin chute, stair case..do u noe how much da child will cry when u leave him or her juz like dat…worse off is throwing da child from a high storey tied in a plastic bag…dats da most INHUMAN thing to do..Oh my God… dere are also people who give birth before marriage but still look after deir child but da father of the child and deir husband is two diff people…why…what if da child grows up and ask who is my father…wad is ur answer gonna be…do u noe wad are da worse things…
ª Giving birth to a child and not letting a child acknowledge u as their mother
ª Giving birth to a child and juz abandoning dem like nobody’s business
ª Giving birth and throwing dem from a high storey
ª Aborting a child knowing u are pregnant *it’s a sin to kill another life and nobody has a right to do it.
ª Leaving ur wife juz becoz she can’t give birth or get pregnant
ª Blaming ur wife fully knowing very well u also have a part in it
ª Blaming ur husband juz becoz its his fault dat he can’t father a child
Ahhh….i juz dun understand da nature of humans…my goodness gracious…but it does not mean dat dere are no good people at all…dere are still some angels ard…dats why da world is still going on…I seriously think dat everyone shld marry becoz dey love deir other half more den demselves, compromise wif dem, be loyal to dem, and learn to really give in a lil even sometimes its not ur fault…well dis goes not only to guys but also gals…
For love marriage..it does not mean dat after marriage ur love shld fade off…and see ur wife as juz a wife…but u gotta look at her like she was ur gf, fren and wife…and dis is also for women…dun look at u husband becoz he married u…learn to continue da courting and dating days…Marriage life wld be more lovelier…
For arrange marriage…it does not mean dat u got married to someone whom u dun even noe much dat u gotta be quiet and stuff…learn to appreciate dem and begin a new love story after marriage…things will be totally diff…and u will realise dat u have fallen in love after u got married…
Marriage is not a pastime hobby..but it’s a lifetime achievement..something which shld only happen once in ur life…signing of Societyz Loneranger AdioyZ…
